Hanako Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Confession: 'that girl' mistook one of my jokes for a serious statement and she got so mad she threatened to end our friendship What the fuck End the friendship and start a new relatioship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ene Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 I play a really bad harmonica. Let's do it. I play violin, so lemme join too! I can also sing bass or tenor, though my bass voice is more solid. We need a name. Any suggestions? Confession: I'm bad at making jokes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TexasDice Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Texas and the Dice.* *prohibited in california. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flutterz Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Confession: 'that girl' mistook one of my jokes for a serious statement and she got so mad she threatened to end our friendship What the fuck So... what was the joke? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrael Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 So... what was the joke? She was going to send me a piece of her final papef since she was stressing about it and I had offered to help her several times already, so she was saying that she was replying to me now only because she wanted my help and then saying it was only a joke and that she would still continue talking to me even if I wasn't going to assist her. So I said: are you sure you're not just taking advantage of my kindness? Her reply: REALLY? If that's how you really feel then we should probably end our friendship here ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kenshin_sama Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Confession: I've had this song on repeat for a while. http://listenonrepeat.com/watch/?v=m9yOgj567kc#Future_Gazer--FripSide_%28Full_Version%29 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wonderfullyevil Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 We need a name. Any suggestions? Confession: I'm bad at making jokes. I have bad naming sense which I complained about a few pages back, so don't look at me. Texas and the Dice is cool though. Don't worry about it. Half the time people can't tell I'm taking a joke. She was going to send me a piece of her final papef since she was stressing about it and I had offered to help her several times already, so she was saying that she was replying to me now only because she wanted my help and then saying it was only a joke and that she would still continue talking to me even if I wasn't going to assist her. So I said: are you sure you're not just taking advantage of my kindness? Her reply: REALLY? If that's how you really feel then we should probably end our friendship here ... Sounds like a joke I would make. That, or the opposite, "Thank you for letting me take advantage of your kindness." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abyssal Monkey Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 She was going to send me a piece of her final papef since she was stressing about it and I had offered to help her several times already, so she was saying that she was replying to me now only because she wanted my help and then saying it was only a joke and that she would still continue talking to me even if I wasn't going to assist her. So I said: are you sure you're not just taking advantage of my kindness? Her reply: REALLY? If that's how you really feel then we should probably end our friendship here ... Confession: Women... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ene Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Texas and the Dice.* *prohibited in california. I have bad naming sense which I complained about a few pages back, so don't look at me. Texas and the Dice is cool though. Don't worry about it. Half the time people can't tell I'm taking a joke. Texas and the Dice sounds good. It's the same for me. She was going to send me a piece of her final papef since she was stressing about it and I had offered to help her several times already, so she was saying that she was replying to me now only because she wanted my help and then saying it was only a joke and that she would still continue talking to me even if I wasn't going to assist her. So I said: are you sure you're not just taking advantage of my kindness? Her reply: REALLY? If that's how you really feel then we should probably end our friendship here ... I like that joke. Sounds like something I would say. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyrillej1 Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Confession: I love to sing but I sound like a dying whale when I do it. Confession: I like to sing too, but I probably also sound like that. I have more of an alto singing voice I think, so I can't really hit high notes well. She was going to send me a piece of her final papef since she was stressing about it and I had offered to help her several times already, so she was saying that she was replying to me now only because she wanted my help and then saying it was only a joke and that she would still continue talking to me even if I wasn't going to assist her. So I said: are you sure you're not just taking advantage of my kindness? Her reply: REALLY? If that's how you really feel then we should probably end our friendship here ... I can kind of understand how she could get mad if she took your statement seriously, since you did recently sort of confess to her. Seems like just some misunderstanding though... just tell her it was a joke and you didn't mean for her to take it seriously. I mean, I think I also wouldn't want to stay friends with someone if I knew they felt I was only taking advantage of them, because it'd show me they don't think our friendship is genuine, or something like that. It's almost an attack on a person's character in a way.. so could be why it could anger someone? I dunno~ just guessing. Confession: Though, I do find it kinda funny that she made a joke about talking to you only because of wanting your help with schoolwork... and then you tried to make a similar joke back, and she got mad, lol.. so weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmsful Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 She was going to send me a piece of her final papef since she was stressing about it and I had offered to help her several times already, so she was saying that she was replying to me now only because she wanted my help and then saying it was only a joke and that she would still continue talking to me even if I wasn't going to assist her. So I said: are you sure you're not just taking advantage of my kindness? Her reply: REALLY? If that's how you really feel then we should probably end our friendship here ... Sounds pretty natural response given the information about her you provided here. You should really think about what jokes are to be made depending on the peronality of the person you are talking to. You are the one at fault here, at least that's how I see it. rainsismyfav 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yuuko Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Sounds pretty natural response given the information about her you provided here. You should really think about what jokes are to be made depending on the peronality of the person you are talking to. You are the one at fault here, at least that's how I see it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hsmsful Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 It might be just me but I don't really rely on emoticons to show whether I am serious or not. Maybe the girl is just dense or she didn't get it. Either way put more effort into making an obvious joke next time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyrillej1 Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Confession: I very much approve of Cyr's new avatar liek if u cri evrytim Confession 3: I cried more from SSY than I did from Clannad Flutterz, Eclipsed, Tyrael and 2 others 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eclipsed Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Cyr's avatar + sig is smex +200 Cyrillej1 and Flutterz 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flutterz Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 I don't know how I feel about that joke, on the one hand she basically made the same joke first, on the other hand that doesn't seem like a very good joke from either of you, on the third hand maybe she was joking when she responded. Basically, girls. just stick to waifus everyone I think SSY might be close to one of my top favorites, maybe even top choice. Just overall, amazing story for me. Fred the Barber 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zodai Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Shin Sekai Yori is down the center of what I'd like theoretically, but in all honesty I think I'm only about halfway through it ^^;; Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TexasDice Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 how is joke formed? how is joke formed? How girl get angri? Texas and the Dice sounds good. Texas and the Dice is cool though. By the way, how is this band thing going to play out in the end? Like Deardrops or more like Kira☆Kira? I'm asking because I'm kind of the main hero here (the Band is named after me) and I would like to avoid that ending. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rainsismyfav Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 She was going to send me a piece of her final papef since she was stressing about it and I had offered to help her several times already, so she was saying that she was replying to me now only because she wanted my help and then saying it was only a joke and that she would still continue talking to me even if I wasn't going to assist her. So I said: are you sure you're not just taking advantage of my kindness? Her reply: REALLY? If that's how you really feel then we should probably end our friendship here ... Hehe. You should treat girls like you're a delivery man taking care of something fragile: HANDLE WITH CARE Sometimes there's a cute chick (like baby chickens chick) inside, perhaps a cute flower, but it can also be a bomb in there. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrael Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 I can kind of understand how she could get mad if she took your statement seriously, since you did recently sort of confess to her. Seems like just some misunderstanding though... just tell her it was a joke and you didn't mean for her to take it seriously. I mean, I think I also wouldn't want to stay friends with someone if I knew they felt I was only taking advantage of them, because it'd show me they don't think our friendship is genuine, or something like that. It's almost an attack on a person's character in a way.. so could be why it could anger someone? I dunno~ just guessing. Confession: Though, I do find it kinda funny that she made a joke about talking to you only because of wanting your help with schoolwork... and then you tried to make a similar joke back, and she got mad, lol.. so weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abyssal Monkey Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Hehe. You should treat girls like you're a delivery man taking care of something fragile: HANDLE WITH CARE Sometimes there's a cute chick (like baby chickens chick) inside, perhaps a cute flower, but it can also be a bomb in there. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyrael Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 This is complete shit. If you can't banter and insult one another comfortably, then the relationship isn't going to last. A relationship built upon treading lightly takes the same amount of light force to break apart. This, I can guarantee. Good, it was never meant to be if she got pissed over something so light. I suggest you say "good riddance" and move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zenophilious Posted July 28, 2015 Share Posted July 28, 2015 Well...that was explosive. If she basically made the same joke, then one would assume that it would be an okay topic to joke about. Question: was this through texts? Because texting ruins conversations that involve sarcasm and jokes. It's almost impossible to convey it without the use of /s, , or something similar. I've had rifts between friends and myself occur because they misinterpreted an instant message I sent them that was meant to be a joke. If it was a normal conversation, then I honestly don't have an answer. I don't know enough about this girl to say anything else, really. Hope it turns out okay, Tyrael <3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abyssal Monkey Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Well...that was explosive. If she basically made the same joke, then one would assume that it would be an okay topic to joke about. Question: was this through texts? Because texting ruins conversations that involve sarcasm and jokes. It's almost impossible to convey it without the use of /s, , or something similar. I've had rifts between friends and myself occur because they misinterpreted an instant message I sent them that was meant to be a joke. If it was a normal conversation, then I honestly don't have an answer. I don't know enough about this girl to say anything else, really. Hope it turns out okay, Tyrael <3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cyrillej1 Posted July 29, 2015 Share Posted July 29, 2015 Shin Sekai Yori is down the center of what I'd like theoretically, but in all honesty I think I'm only about halfway through it ^^;; You should definitely try finishing it~, it just keeps getting better. This is complete shit. If you can't banter and insult one another comfortably, then the relationship isn't going to last. A relationship built upon treading lightly takes the same amount of light force to break apart. This, I can guarantee. Good, it was never meant to be if she got pissed over something so light. I suggest you say "good riddance" and move on. Again, if your friends can't detect obvious sarcasm and take offense to it, it will most likely take more effort than is worth it to keep them as a friend. You shouldn't have to change how you act around your friends, that's what you do when you have a job. Especially if they have known you for a long enough time that they should be able to determine whether or not you are serious. It could just be that I'm laid back as hell and just as blunt, but if someone takes offence to anything I say, sarcastic or not, I laugh at them, then thank them for their entertainment services. Confession: I do somewhat agree with Abyss's views on this, but at the same time, I do think sometimes it takes some effort in understanding one another and some compromises between people who are a bit different. To write someone off instantly because they aren't always on the same page as you, could spoil something that could have had potential to be good. I don't mind changing a bit for someone if I could understand the reason for it, but there's also a limit to how much I'd be willing to change if it went against my core values. I tried telling her that, but she has read my replies and she's not answering back. I think this might be the end. How anti-climactic As long as you tried to reconcile, I think that's the best you could do... that shows that you cared enough at least. Now, it's her turn to try~ and if it doesn't work out.. then just not meant to be I guess^^; like, Abyss said.. some aren't worth the effort keeping if it's that easy to break up in the first place. I hope it works out though! LiquidShu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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