Ranzo

How about you watch a documentary or two about mass produced chicken farms to make you feel even worse? That sounds like a good idea.

As someone who has romanticized about potentially making a vn(and then promptly doing nothing about) I'd say that you probably need to first think of a concept for your vn. (what's the plot, who are the characters, etc.)
After that you need to think about who'll do the actual writing and storyboarding of your vn. Then you need to think about who will be your editor because every project needs one of those. After that you need a illustrator or illustrators for storyboards, character sprites, cgs, and backgrounds. Then you need a composer to work on the bgm and someone to help with the background sounds. Finally you need a programmer who knows how to use whatever vn engine you plan on using.
Oh and you need someone to think about the budgeting of your vn and whether or not you'll make it commercial or free to play and basically how you'll be paying for the services that you will need in order to make your vn.
You need to start thinking about how many of these tasks you can accomplish by yourself and how many things you can't do by yourself.

HEY! Get out of here!! Wimmin ain't allowed here during club meetings!!!
We're talking about dating dudes here!

 
On the subject at hand, I haven't played any Otomes yet because I got turned off by how much of a lame dame the protag in Yo Jin Bo was and I'm not used to playing vns on a vita(even though I have one) I do want to start eventually though

I hope you enjoy Strawberry Panic, that was my first taste of the yuri scene way back when. It also has one of the best supporting characters of all time.
 
As for me it is still Bloom and it is still really wonderful and everything that I hoped it would be.

I like endings that fit the nature of the story and don't feel cheap or rushed. There have been times in the past when I've lamented happy endings but, as a contrast, the times when I did get a sad ending I sometimes wished for a happy ending instead. What I really want in an ending is it to feel justified. Happy or sad. Hell, I'll even stomach a deus ex machina ending, as long as there is some establishment of the possibility of that happening. I preferred the somewhat happy ending of Swan Song to the depressing one and I preferred Phorni's ending in Symphonic Rain over Al Fine(though I did like both of them)

HEY! Get out of here!! Wimmin ain't allowed here during club meetings!!!
We're talking about dating dudes here!

 
On the subject at hand, I haven't played any Otomes yet because I got turned off by how much of a lame dame the protag in Yo Jin Bo was and I'm not used to playing vns on a vita(even though I have one) I do want to start eventually though

I'd say like others Kindred Spirits is a good choice along with Nurse Love Addiction. Both volumes of Flowers are great as well especially the second one based wholly one the strength of the one of the best protags out there. Katahane is also a underrated vn that deserves a mention as well. Aoishiro has some romantic moments though it is more plot heavy than anything else(Best be prepared though, for long, long discussions about food and Japanese mythology) 
Fatal 12 has some good yuri moments in it and it is one of the best VNs I've played all year.
On your EVN side you've got some pretty decent picks like Highway Blossoms, Starlight Vega, Butterfly Soup, Love Ribbon.
 
Anyway, welcome to the yuri club! Enjoy as it slowly starts taking control over all aspects of your life.
So....

I like good endings or ones that fit the overall story
There are many times when I liked the ending of one particular heroine over the designated true end of a vn (Like Kyou's and Tomoyo's end in Clannad)
And there are times when I enjoy the true end more than all the others (G Senj)
 

I mean yeah I would say Kanon for sure
 
Also Galaxy Angel because it takes place in space and who knows, it could very well be winter on some planet somewhere.

I like good endings or ones that fit the overall story
There are many times when I liked the ending of one particular heroine over the designated true end of a vn (Like Kyou's and Tomoyo's end in Clannad)
And there are times when I enjoy the true end more than all the others (G Senj)
 

Yo, welcome to Fuwa it is the place to be! (I think that might have been the tagline to chucky cheeses though...)
Anyway, I've not really played any moege but Koi to Senkyo to Chocolate is similar to one and I think it is pretty rad.

That's all.

Finished Crystalline and by god did they fuck up the world building also the writing was for the most part pretty mediocre. The jokes were by and large both cringe and suck.
They seemed to have regressed since Ace Academy
Artistically though it was a huge leap in quality
The voice acting for the main characters was real good
Not so much for the side and bit characters
Don't fucking put beach volleyball and karaoke in a visual novel about a fantasy world you stupid fucks!

If you are still looking for recommendations here are some non yuri ones that I would recommend to you
https://mangadex.org/title/17342/machida-kun-no-sekai
This one is really fantastic and is just good for the soul. It kinda restores your faith in humanity until something happens a second later to destroy it all over again.
https://mangadex.org/title/15722/tomo-chan-wa-onna-no-ko
It has a great lead and it is truly funny
https://mangadex.org/title/22078/saotome-senshu-hitakakusu
This is very endearing and sweet and proves that tomboys are the best both in and out of yuri
https://mangadex.org/title/16050/kawaii-hito
This is sort of unusual but very sweet, a guy with a face like death finds a girl who loves him.
https://mangadex.org/title/15240/kishuku-gakkou-no-juliet
It is one of the few male helmed shojos that I like because I can understand why a woman would fall for him.
 

Yeah it strangely doesn't look awful. They look a bit eery though like those drawling of what pokemon would look like if they were real that's been floating around the net for several years. Not sure about Ryan Reynolds voices Pikachu though. Shame they didn't give it to an actual voice actor.
Also
 

Crimson Gray is the only decent yandere game that I know of in english.
There is Yandere but it is very trash

Yeah, but staying for the bad ends is important since you get to see that bastard get what's coming to him. The piece of shit that he is.
 
If you do end up playing Crimson Gray they just released a bit of a sequel/companion to it from the perspective of the yandere which I found to be really interesting. It is a shame that it is woefully short though.