nekomimigirl

Hey there! I was the translator for Fashioning Little Miss Lonesome, so I can confirm it doesn't have any of the stuff you listed. :> The devs, Kalmia8, recently released another game as well, Kami-sama Nante Yondenai! which, while I've only played the demo, seems to be in the same vein of light-hearted romance stuff.
Alternatively, would you be into something like Cute Demon Crashers? Not sure if it's the right art style you're looking for, but it's fairly vanilla, sex-positive stuff. There is one route (Orias) where there's light bondage, but the game is all focused around consent, so you can control how much of that aspect you prefer, IIRC.
Hope that helps!

This VNDB search should be what you're looking for.  Hope you like Japanese, because only one of those has a full English patch.  Do note that specifying 'otome' yields like one result; you'll have to settle for 'female protagonist'.  Some of the tags aren't commonly-used on VNDB, and thus not all valid tag combinations will actually give you what you're looking for. 

Hi. What are some of the better/best otome games with H scenes? I've never played H games before so I'd like to get some recommendations. I'm looking for otome games with an anime art style. I don't want games with that indie, American, hand-drawn kinda look. No offense to those games of course. Off the top of my head I know I wouldn't like the following things/themes/fetishes:
Rape
Tentacles
Hardcore bondage
Anal
Peeing and scat (if I have to list those things, haha)
I can't think of anything else at the moment. Games in EN or JP are fine and it would be great if the H scenes are UNCENSORED but since that's probably rare, censored H scenes are fine too. I'm looking forward to getting some great suggestions. Thanks in advance!

Thank you very much. ^^ I plan to stay and contribute to the community when I can.

You can freely talk about lolis in VNs and ask for recommendations just fine, which is what this thread does. This is not a thread to talk about the loli/shota sex and the problems whatever it has. He/she just wants recommendations and explained what he/she wanted in depth. This thread is a lot better than "Want x-genre VN k thx bye" threads that pop up sometimes. 
 

The first step isn't always the easiest but it might lead you to something you enjoy and who knows maybe you'll end up getting into eroge (One of us, one of us) and other genres besides Otome. I wish you the best with your first experience 

I think a game that fits what you are looking for is Fashioning Little Miss Lonesome, which is coming out in English sometime soon thanks to MangaGamer. It's an otome eroge that looks really good, and according to the tags on VNDB, it doesn't have any of the content that you said you don't want in the game.

That's perfect, thank you!
 
I hope so too. Thank you. And off I go to try something new. Wish me luck! No really, I have no idea how my mind and emotions will react to this... haha?

Yeah I don't think the thread is at risk of being shut down, that being said my only recommendation would be as @Fiddle suggested playing around with the filters on VNDB. I hope you can find what you're looking for 

I don't think simply asking for recommendations is against the rules.
I don't know of any visual novels that fit those criteria, but if it helps in searching, I believe the word you're looking for (referring to cute boys) is "shota." Messing around with VNDB's filters may yield something.

Yes. It's under the "Tags to include."