Hi!
I'm not good at introductions but I thought it'd be rude to just start posting without introducing myself so there it goes.
So I found out about VNs years ago but I dropped them because I was just too impatient to get past the lack of interaction; I didn't like stories being told to me, but rather decide them by myself. However, I've now grown older and weary of all videogames but visual novels, which now happen to be really interesting, almost fascinating, to me. So a few days ago I raided the web hunting down all information and sources about VNs I could get my hands on and got to play a few of them. Now, I probably haven't played enough VNs to substantially back up my incoming query, but it's bugging me inside and I've not been able to figure it out, so please, lend me a hand:
I'm not much of a achievement hunter guy, so I don't care much about completing CG galleries. I'm not either particularly thriled by anime setups, so I can't recreate myself too much with the contents of the novel. However, I seemingly have a sort of preference for empathizing with fiction characters, so I thoroughly enjoy roleplaying the main character and making the same choices I'd make in real life. And then, two problems arose. First one is, while I'm always attracted to the troubled characters, I always end up getting involved with the energetic one. I was able to figure that out more or less: I always choose the confronting choice, which I guess fuels up such energetic characters and unwillingly gets me involved with them, and when they go beyond their limits and everything goes to hell, I always choose the soothing action because I believe everyone deserves a second chance and so I win their heart and what follows. The second one, probably linked to the first, is more troublesome to me. I ALWAYS GET THE BAD ENDING!!! I've played so far Katawa Shoujo and Sharin no Kuni, Himawari no Shoujo and I keep running into bad endings. Into the earliest ones, which is even more troubling. Now, I understand the easiest fix to this is to get over it and load a previous save or outright restart and try again with different choices. But I keep thinking there's a reason behind, so I've been trying to bullshit-pseudo-analyze myself but I can't draw any further conclusion other than me being a selfish hedonist who can't carry a long-term relationship and sooner than later ends up screwing the poor gal (both physically and psychologically) and getting BAD END, but it's only blind guessing in the end. So I raided the net again in search of answers but it was all for naught, so I looked instead for visual novel-themed boards and this one seemed the most warming and appetizing out there, so I signed up and made a self-deprecating post asking for someone to tell me what I wanted to hear, even if I don't know what it is.
So tell me guys, does obtaining a "bad ending" have a special meaning in regards to the player('s behavior)? Are there any tips to avoid it happening any longer? Or should I enjoy them for what they are?
Thanks a lot for your help and for reading and sorry for being so self-centered. I'm really looking forward to your answers. I'll try to do my best to fit in. So long!