So, I'll actually give this one a try.   Ren (and to a lesser extent Zaka) have already taken huge first steps and got their actual faces out there, something which a lot of people are very careful of considering our collective hobby - not that there's anything wrong with being a pervert.   I'd like everyone who posts in here to adhere to a few rules, which should be obvious: Keep it civil - people might be shy, have social anxieties or any array of other issues you don't know of, so keep i