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Alright, big confession time. Some might say this is too personal to be posting on the internet, whilst I am not just another  4chan person, hidden behind the veil of anonimity.

 

Today marks the second anniversary of the day I tried to do something about my unhappiness. The fact I am still here, writing this post, should give you enough clues as to how that ended up.

Not sure how to feel about that. Things haven't gotten worse, but they haven't gotten much better either. If anything, things are more "stable", since I've entered a routine with some degree of normality. However, the problems still lie there, dormant, waiting for the next time I am forcefully ripped out of my comfort zone by Ms. Life and have nothing to keep me afloat. I do not know if that would be good or bad honestly.

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confession: IM GAY.   Okay, im not gay, im bisexual, but I have fallen in love with another guy for the first time ever and its mutual. its pretty wierd tbh, but it feels really great,

Confession: On a more positive note

Alright, big confession time. Some might say this is too personal to be posting on the internet, whilst I am not just another  4chan person, hidden behind the veil of anonimity.

 

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Keep yourself strong if you can.  Find something to anchor yourself to that you can be proud of.  Writing, drawing, an art you can excel at or a hobby you can immerse yourself in, preferably both.  From there you can keep yourself improving and push through when things go sour.

 

I hope to see you succeed in the coming years.  I have faith in you.

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Alright, big confession time. Some might say this is too personal to be posting on the internet, whilst I am not just another  4chan person, hidden behind the veil of anonimity.

 

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In two years, you've gone from "knowing" to "not being sure if you know". Progress. You'll get there. 

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Alright, big confession time. Some might say this is too personal to be posting on the internet, whilst I am not just another  4chan person, hidden behind the veil of anonimity.

 

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Taking yourself out of your comfort zone is a double edged sword. It can either give you the fortune you desire, or it can fall apart and make you upset. As long as you continue to not make change in your life, nothing in your life will ever change unless you get lucky. But if there's one thing I've learned over time is that miracles are too rare to be relied on. If you want to succeed in life, you need to make goals for yourself and stick to them. Make a plan to meet your goals. If your plan doesn't work, change the plan, don't change your goals. Ambitious goals require a lot of time to meet them; you're never gonna amount to anything if all you do is change your mind. Make sure that what you pursue in life is the best possible course of action for you to take. If you're not sure what you want to do, think very long and hard about it. Thanks to the internet, you have nearly unlimited access to resources so that you can help you think about your life's ambition. Take your time to learn this; think about how much you can achieve over the course of your lifetime if you simply invest a few days, a week, or even a month of research into deciding on your goals. The potential is tremendous!

Another thing you need to be careful of is letting your emotions get the better of you. By nature, human beings are very emotional. It can drive us to overcome physical limitations, inspire creativity, and to live by more than just practical means. At the same time, it can also create fear and depression. We let ourselves get overwhelmed by such emotions and fall into a state of laziness. Overcoming negative emotion is not an easy process, but in order for you to proceed with your goals, you need to learn to conquer your emotions and not let them take control of you. But if you find that you can't do it through your own efforts, seek help. In order to be able to overcome tough obstacles on your own, you need to be tough, and you need to be disciplined. The mind is a very complex thing, and not everyone is capable of being strong. In many cases, however, collective effort can accomplish so much more than individual effort. If you need encouragement to do what you need to do, find a friend who is willing to do it. Getting treatment from a mental health specialist can work wonders for improving your state of mind.

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Thanks for the kind words everyone.

 I've actually been going to therapy for nearly two years now as well (started soon after that eventful night). My therapist says I may not realise it, but I've made small improvements recently that show how I've made progress that may seem insignifcant for me, but are really the beginning of a good path. I still don't know, given that my problems are still dormant and I've "solved" them by avoiding the triggers, which is a problem given that some may make me face them sooner or later.
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Confession: She said no, what a surprise :D

Don't sweat too much over it, what is done is done 

Sure. My perfect track record of getting rejected when asking girls out is still intact, at least.

At least you have some kind of interaction with girls ;__; It would be nice to talk to 3D girls. Even 2D imagination waifu men need it sometimes.

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Confession: She said no, what a surprise :D

Don't sweat too much over it, what is done is done 

Sure. My perfect track record of getting rejected when asking girls out is still intact, at least.

At least you have some kind of interaction with girls ;__; It would be nice to talk to 3D girls. Even 2D imagination waifu men need it sometimes.

Are you my long lost Scandinavian twin?

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