Fuwanovel Confessions

[starlessn1ght]

Who needs to study?

Confession: It's because of that mindset that I'm afraid to enter college.

 

I'm not in college. High School Of the Dead

[Tyrael]

Do not worry, for I still hold strong~

My commitment to the world of 2D is unfaltering. If this is all the 3D world's encroachment has to offer as a challenge... then I must say that its task is futile.

Confession: I've been neglecting my Japanese studies over the past week because of my writing. I need to find a way to balance both.

Edit: Why must everything trigger my inner chuuni... o-o

Lino's devotion to 2D only wavers in the presence of a tent

[LinovaA]

Lino's devotion to 2D only wavers in the presence of a tent

 

Oh hush, you.

[TexasDice]

You dropped a feels novel. I feel good for you.  There are better things in life than being masochistic.

I disagree, but that's nothing new.

[Zodai]

Okay, I think I'm awake now.  Possibly.

 

Let's see...

 

Am I the only one who didn't actually expect the thread to get locked?

And second of all, what do we do now?  ><;;

[Wonderfullyevil]

Okay, I think I'm awake now. Possibly.

Let's see...

Am I the only one who didn't actually expect the thread to get locked?

And second of all, what do we do now? ><;;

I created it and am not surprised. I believe you're alone on that.

You could probably PM, but that thread is a sign that I shouldn't be a part of it either. I was probably the least interested member....

TL;DR You're alone this time!

[Mr Poltroon]

Okay, I think I'm awake now.  Possibly.

 

Let's see...

 

Am I the only one who didn't actually expect the thread to get locked?

And second of all, what do we do now?  ><;;

I'll let you in on a little secret...

It's generally agreed that a VN site with a concentrated Male demographic does not make for a good dating site. Especially not in such a sexualized environment (and by that I mean VN's are usually so. All dem H-Scenes, all dat fanservice, all dat PLOT (see Sakura Series for examples)- no other implications) and out in public where anybody can easily troll in. Especially the trolls and  , Fuwanovel has high amounts of that.

 

Confession: 

Every time I try to do something productive I quickly notice it takes effort and cease at once.

[hsmsful]

My commitement for 2D is the worst here and that's because my doctor told me to stay away from porn games and fapping for the sake of my own health... don't kick me out of here plz

 

Confession: I'm actually quite interested to how you would respond.

Well too bad I didn't save my post and I am quite lazy to write it all again but let's say the main point was that I am too fabulous for the girls or smth like that, I don't even remember quite well.

 

Confession: I think I'm never entirely cured of love disease. Since I was 4 (when I entered school) I've fallen for the same girl of my class 3 or 4 times during all those years. There is also another girl of my class I've fallen for. And there was a random girl from a trip. I am not in love with any of them, but I think I can easily fall for any of 'em if I just keep thinking about them. This almost happened for a 5th time with the first girl, but then I just decided to take her out of my mind, and it worked, I didn't fall again. My point is, whatever girl I fall for, I never get over it completely, in a way that I have small crushes on those three simultaneously, that can easily become passion again. 

 

Is this normal? Like, I could never forget completely my osananajimi (since I was 4) that still studies with me... And I'm sure I can fall for her again and again as the others... Do you guys are like this too?

I have a similar case but I don't think about it too much, I just call them possible dating candidates. I have only fallen in love with three girls: one had a shitty personality, other one is a troll who likes to play pranks on people (I WAS A VICTIM , OK? OK)  and the third one is the crush I talked about here or on the advice thread. I don't love any of these three anyways. As for the possible dating candidates, with time , you can convince yourself that u like any of them but convincing yourself otherwise will still work. So yeah you are totally normal. You are not an alien YET. 

 

Okay, I think I'm awake now.  Possibly.

 

Let's see...

 

Am I the only one who didn't actually expect the thread to get locked?

And second of all, what do we do now?  ><;;

 

I was not surprised, I thought it would be firstly moved to the coliseum of chatter. Then it would be locked.

You can always create a freedom for the date a fuwan thread thread

And right now , we do nothing, we either go back to our confessions or to our chatter ... I am not sure what we are doing anymore....

[Cyrillej1]

what do we do now?  ><;;

maybe stalk members you're interested in, in a non-creepy manner... jking.. maybe. 

 

Confession: Back when I first saw Tiago's Excalibur signature, I actually facepalmed myself xD  lol

"Fools!"

[starlessn1ght]

My commitement for 2D is the worst here and that's because my doctor told me to stay away from porn games and fapping for the sake of my own health... don't kick me out of here plz

 

Well too bad I didn't save my post and I am quite lazy to write it all again but let's say the main point was that I am too fabulous for the girls or smth like that, I don't even remember quite well.

 

I have a similar case but I don't think about it too much, I just call them possible dating candidates. I have only fallen in love with three girls: one had a shitty personality, other one is a troll who likes to play pranks on people (I WAS A VICTIM , OK? OK)  and the third one is the crush I talked about here or on the advice thread. I don't love any of these three anyways. As for the possible dating candidates, with time , you can convince yourself that u like any of them but convincing yourself otherwise will still work. So yeah you are totally normal. You are not an alien YET. 

 

 

 

WHAT?! So you would date someone you isn't in love with? Why would you do that?!

 

My osananajimi has also a shitty personality (seriously I don't know what attracts me to this girl). She is that type of girl that dates TONS of dudes every week, you know? And I hate that type of girl. Around the same time she kissed my cheek, she kissed another dude, but on his lips. Yeah. But I'm never really envy of her, I sometimes just doubt a girl's capacity to fall in love. First, because I've never seen a girl in love, and second, they just want any dude and it's fine for them. 

 

Even if she thinks every dude is fine, I don't think I would be her type, anyway. Besides, despite falling in love, I have no interest in romantic relationships as I've already stated, so...

[Wonderfullyevil]

WHAT?! So you would date someone you isn't in love with? Why would you do that?!

 

Not sure if serious, but for social reasons, for physical reasons, for connections, for manipulative reasons, out of pity, to escape heartbreak, to be 'nice'... yeah quite a lot of reasons.

[Tyrael]

WHAT?! So you would date someone you isn't in love with? Why would you do that?!

 

My osananajimi has also a shitty personality (seriously I don't know what attracts me to this girl). She is that type of girl that dates TONS of dudes every week, you know? And I hate that type of girl. Around the same time she kissed my cheek, she kissed another dude, but on his lips. Yeah. But I'm never really envy of her, I sometimes just doubt a girl's capacity to fall in love. First, because I've never seen a girl in love, and second, they just want any dude and it's fine for them. 

 

Even if she thinks every dude is fine, I don't think I would be her type, anyway. Besides, despite falling in love, I have no interest in romantic relationships as I've already stated, so...

 

Confession: I have dated two girls I wasn't in love with because I wanted to know what having a girfriend was like. 10/10 would do it again

[Zodai]

I'll let you in on a little secret...

It's generally agreed that a VN site with a concentrated Male demographic does not make for a good dating site. Especially not in such a sexualized environment (and by that I mean VN's are usually so. All dem H-Scenes, all dat fanservice, all dat PLOT (see Sakura Series for examples)- no other implications) and out in public where anybody can easily troll in. Especially the trolls and  , Fuwanovel has high amounts of that.

 

Well, it's been at least partially acknowledged.  For a niche site like Fuwa it's mostly guaranteed the interest is shared, in addition to a higher percentage of introverts, meaning the chances of said females being similar is much higher than something that would be more usable as a mass dating site.  (Though it's certainly easier said than done.)

 

maybe stalk members you're interested in, in a non-creepy manner... jking.. maybe. 

 

 

Figuring out how to initiate communication at all in a non-creepy manner is something I'm still trying to sort.  Right now all I have is hoping they jump onto FSG as an excuse to communicate before they leave (usually within a week) and then figuring out why communication drops off between me and them in particular (usually I seem to screw it up in some fashion, but I can't tell if it's the primary reason ), and taking that knowledge so I don't screw it up as badly the next time it comes around.  After that, keep going until there's someone actually within dating distance who shows up.

 

Confession:  My Skype name is my real name, and I can't say if being separated from my Fuwa identity serves as a benefit or a detriment.

 

As for the conversation of love up above, it's something I'd rather have controlled.  It's a complicated subject, but full-on 'true love' (only experienced in my first relationship) leads to a bit of a failure to keep perspective.  It's best to keep those under control and attempt to communicate with those who you find an interest in.  After that just see if it increases over-time and go from there.

[Mr Poltroon]

Well, it's been at least partially acknowledged.  For a niche site like Fuwa it's mostly guaranteed the interest is shared, in addition to a higher percentage of introverts, meaning the chances of said females being similar is much higher than something that would be more usable as a mass dating site.  (Though it's certainly easier said than done.)

Pshh, still doesn't solve the issue of having every male beast fighting each other over something. But alright, I see your point.

 

I still prefer private courting and pistol duels over women, though. That's much better.

[Flutterz]

Confession: I use Chrome incognito mode to stalk people on Fuwa :>

[starlessn1ght]

Not sure if serious, but for social reasons, for physical reasons, for connections, for manipulative reasons, out of pity, to escape heartbreak, to be 'nice'... yeah quite a lot of reasons.

 

 

Confession: I have dated two girls I wasn't in love with because I wanted to know what having a girfriend was like. 10/10 would do it again

 

But you have to take other's feelings into consideration. Well, I would never do that. Not only because it would hurt the other person unnecessarily (she'd be living a lie), and because I couldn't like it less. I wouldn't like physical contact with that person, I wouldn't feel pleasure going out with her, I wouldn't feel comfortable to share my feelings or have deep conversations with that person... I just don't get it, it would be damn bad. 

 

The last three reasons @Wonderfulguy, don't make sense. Pity? Wouldn't be even worse to lie to her and have her feelings broken later? Escape heartbreak? And heartbreaking the other person (that wouldn't even cure it, cuz you DONT like her). Nice? No, some stuff you have to think of yourself first (going out with someone you'd like would be a great sacrifice I think you wouldn't do just for being 'nice')

 

And Tyrael, you didnt experience dating, but a false dating. Why do people like to date? Because they're with the ones they love, why else would they like it?

[hsmsful]

 

WHAT?! So you would date someone you isn't in love with? Why would you do that?!

 

My osananajimi has also a shitty personality (seriously I don't know what attracts me to this girl). She is that type of girl that dates TONS of dudes every week, you know? And I hate that type of girl. Around the same time she kissed my cheek, she kissed another dude, but on his lips. Yeah. But I'm never really envy of her, I sometimes just doubt a girl's capacity to fall in love. First, because I've never seen a girl in love, and second, they just want any dude and it's fine for them. 

 

Even if she thinks every dude is fine, I don't think I would be her type, anyway. Besides, despite falling in love, I have no interest in romantic relationships as I've already stated, so...

First off all, don't generalize. Not all girls are like that. It's like how girls think that we , guys , are hungry wolves and despite many of us being like that, many others aren't. NEVER GENERALIZE. 

Now as for your question, tbh I think the sole requirement for two people to date each other is to be able to hang out together and have fun time together. That's the sole main requirement. That's only in my opinion. So I called them possible dating candidates because I have fun spending time with them plus I like them (at least physically). inb4 like does not equal love. Although such dating will end one day especially since I am in highschool and it is rare for relationships to continue after highschool. Most people will walk their separate ways. So yeah having a relationship like that have many advantages like being rational, being able to judge things and who knows, maybe you will start to love the other side. Hell I have seen relationships where people only loved each other after they have got really close (in times 2 or 3 years of dating ._. ). So yeah that's why they are possible dating candidates, I feel that I might love them if I get closer to them. You don't have to be all fawning over a girl in order to date her. 

Other than that, there are many other specific reasons to date these candidates, there's a girl whom I am interested in her life and in her background, there's another girl who's just so gorgeous, there's  who said herself she is interested in me but I told her I am not interested in dating anyone atm (hey I was just rejected, I didn't want to enter any relationship right off the bat) ... etc.. A better way to say this is : 

 

Not sure if serious, but for social reasons, for physical reasons, for connections, for manipulative reasons, out of pity, to escape heartbreak, to be 'nice'... yeah quite a lot of reasons.

^ that

 

 

I still prefer private courting and pistol duels over women, though. That's much better.

If that ever happens irl, just tell me and I will go to see it myself *-*

[Yuuko]

Confession: I use Chrome incognito mode to stalk people on Fuwa :>

Why did I never think of that. I always logged out except when I stalk one certain person.

[LinovaA]

Confession: Dating is overrated.

 

Why did I never think of that. I always logged out except when I stalk one certain person.

 

Now I'm curious...

(´･ω･`)

[starlessn1ght]

 

Now as for your question, tbh I think the sole requirement for two people to date each other is to be able to hang out together and have fun time together. That's the sole main requirement. 

 

Wouldn't that be just friendship? There is no need to go beyond that if you just like to have fun together.

 

 

 

 

Other than that, there are many other specific reasons to date these candidates, there's a girl whom I am interested in her life and in her background, there's another girl who's just so gorgeous, there's  who said herself she is interested in me but I told her I am not interested in dating anyone atm 

 

Again, friendship would be enough.

 

 

 

 

So yeah that's why they are possible dating candidates, I feel that I might love them if I get closer to them. You don't have to be all fawning over a girl in order to date her. 

 

But if I'm not all fawning over her, I wouldn't even like to be physically touched by her, much less hanging out with her like bf and gf. And I wouldn't exactly benefit from loving someone in the first place, so I wouldn't enter a relationship hoping that would happen, besides there's no guarantee it will. 

[Zenophilious]

Confession: I use Chrome incognito mode to stalk people on Fuwa :>

Do you even Firefox, bro?  jk, I just use it because I can easily set it to wipe search data when closed while remembering usernames   Chrome is my waifu.

 

I still prefer private courting and pistol duels over women, though. That's much better.

What era do you live in?  O.o

 

Confession: I think I might have a minor form of OCD, because I get very particular about how my things are organized, am obsessed with neatness, and have a slight obsession with things being even and straight (Fun fact: odd numbers irritate me).  I often go out of my way to push in chairs, fold napkins in restaurants and sort things on my desk in school so they take up the least amount of space.  I lack the manic parts, like obsessive hand washing and the like.  Doesn't really bother me that much, since it doesn't make life a problem, but I've yet to see "normal people" act the same way, so that's lead to my self-diagnosis.  I talked to my therapist about it a while ago, and he said it's similar to autism in the sense that you can have symptoms and not technically have enough to be diagnosed with it.  Oh well.  Guess that's just one of my quirks

[Mr Poltroon]

What era do you live in?  O.o

Same as yours. Just in a different level, clearly.

[Tyrael]

Same as yours. Just in a different level, clearly.

 

When he says a different level, he means his mom's basement.

[Abyssal Monkey]

Confession: I think I might have a minor form of OCD, because I get very particular about how my things are organized, am obsessed with neatness, and have a slight obsession with things being even and straight (Fun fact: odd numbers irritate me).  I often go out of my way to push in chairs, fold napkins in restaurants and sort things on my desk in school so they take up the least amount of space.  I lack the manic parts, like obsessive hand washing and the like.  Doesn't really bother me that much, since it doesn't make life a problem, but I've yet to see "normal people" act the same way, so that's lead to my self-diagnosis.  I talked to my therapist about it a while ago, and he said it's similar to autism in the sense that you can have symptoms and not technically have enough to be diagnosed with it.  Oh well.  Guess that's just one of my quirks

That's not OCD, thats just normal.  OCD is literally the compulsion to do things you otherwise would never do.  People over exaggerate OCD way too much, myself included, when I joke that my mom has Obsessive Cleaning Disorder, when in actuality it's just a form of stress relief.

 

TL;DR: OCD is like what South Park did to tourettes, where Cartman could literally not stop swearing obscenities.

[Zenophilious]

I can totally see Tiago sitting in a basement, typing on a computer wearing a full suit and top hat.  Anyone else?

 

That's not OCD, thats just normal.  OCD is literally the compulsion to do things you otherwise would never do.  People over exaggerate OCD way too much, myself included, when I joke that my mom has Obsessive Cleaning Disorder, when in actuality it's just a form of stress relief.

 

TL;DR: OCD is like what South Park did to tourettes, where Cartman could literally not stop swearing obscenities.

True, but I do feel physically uncomfortable when I don't make things neat.  It's not enough to get me a diagnosis, not by a long shot, but I've still gotten some weird looks when I've told people about it.  It's a little beyond normal, but not enough to make people worried, so again, no diagnosis.  Self-diagnosing little quirks like that strangely makes me feel better.