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About an hour ago or so, I got into a fight with one girl in school.

Well after school, she called her boyfriend and 3 more people, they tried to run me over and then tried to beat the shit out of me... Luckily, one grandpa let me in his flat after I begged a lot and after a while, police came...

But I am scared to go out now... I am especially scared to go anywhere tomorrow.

 

I made this thread just to get some encouragement... Can I get some........?

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10 minutes ago, Funyarinpa said:

Glad you're safe, fam. What happened with the police? If there's any of them still there with you, you could ask one to escort you to your house.

You'll be fine!

 

I'm at home now, luckily.

Tomorrow we will try to solve this "problem" at school, and if it won't get solved, then it might go to court....

Also, thank you for the reply.

Edited by Nashetania

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Just now, Nashetania said:

and if it won't get solved, then it might go to court....

Dude, if they tried to FUCKING RUN YOU OVER, as in run you over with a car, then that's straight-up attempted murder. Sounds court-worthy to me.

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15 minutes ago, mitchhamilton said:

thats really messed up man. i hope for the best for you. if the authorities take this seriously, they will face criminal charges. hang in there nash and stay strong.

Thank you! I am mostly calmed down now.

...Though tomorrow will be pain in the ass.

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24 minutes ago, Silvz said:

I wouldn't go to school tomorrow if I were you.

I don't think that's a good solution.

My advice would be, make sure you stay around groups of people or teachers for a bit, and they won't do anything. Don't talk to them, don't look at them. Just pretend they don't exist and do your own thing.

Also, like the others said, trying to run someone over is a really serious thing. This isn't just some funny joke they can brush off; that's seriously messed up. Take it to the police and see what happens. Those morons deserve to get punished for acting like that.

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37 minutes ago, Okarin said:

I regret to hear this.

Yes, violence sucks *this* much.

Hope everything turns out well, hang in there!

Also, try the Yume Miru Kusuri approach: change schools ASAP, if you can.

No, counterratack, don't run out.

 

Destroy their E-reputation, by any mean.

And watch them die of shame. 

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Look dude, if you're SO amicable that you think you can talk it out with people who tried to fucking murder you for fuck's sake, I have nothing to say to you. But you can't be sure that that girl won't get into fight with anyone else ever, and that means these people can attempt murder again. Even if you're willing to forgive and forget what they did to you, they could harm others. I'm saying this in case you really don't feel like reporting that they tried to run you over. I think you really should report such a thing. Relocating/changing schools also sounds like good advice, but then again I've always been a goody-two-shoes so I've never been in a circumstance anything like your current situation so do take that with a grain of salt.

 

Edited by Funyarinpa

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What the hell happened during these last 24 hours? You clearly seem shaken enough to go online for consolation. Please be extremely careful in the coming hours. I don't want you more traumatized than you already are. Don't aggravate the situation any further if possible and get all the help you can from your surrounding since there is only so much us anonymous people can do for these kind of things.

But first calm down yourself to the extent of feeling confident enough to not choose isolation as your reaction. The road you go from here on will prove the aftermath to be productive or traumatic. Having said that, safety should still be your priority. Please take care of yourself in the near future, especially for tomorrow in case the perpetrators decide to take more illogical course of actions in fear. Sorry, I don't mean to scare you but it felt necessary to warn you from my side as well. 

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If I were you I would be prepared for 1 month of Isolation, a lot of VN's and anime, Some popcorn, Ice cream, And some lotion :makina:

Seriously now. I would stay In my house, But the other users have good points as well, It's up to you understanding all the options we can give you, and think of any possibilities with your actual situation and make a decision from it. 

Stay strong.

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Just now, SpinningShiat said:

If I were you I would be prepared for 1 month of Isolation, a lot of VN's and anime, Some popcorn, Ice cream, And some lotion :makina:

Seriously now. I would stay In my house, But the other users have good points as well, It's up to you understanding all the options we can give you, and think of any possibilities with your actual situation and make a decision from it. 

Stay strong.

what an inspirational message followed by a terrifying image. :miyako:

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If you don't feel safe a few weeks from now, I suggest taking self-defense classes and conflict resolution classes.  In my case, it was the reverse... I had to learn to control a powerful temper and took meditation and stress release/relief classes and began to avoid classes that took advantage of or enhanced my aggressive side. 

In any case, stay around people you know and trust, and try not to be alone for any significant period of time, so you can avoid falling into depressive/fear spirals.  Talking to people you trust about unrelated subjects and watching humorous shows or anime are two things I've use to kill stress and fear.

Edit: Also - and this is serious - binge on your favorite foods.  Eating an entire tub of ice cream at a single sitting can be great for easing my nerves...

Edited by Clephas

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Damn, I'm mad I wasn't around at the time you posted this, but I'm glad you're okay man. Definitely take it easy and follow the advice given by others so far. You know if you ever want to talk, you have others you trust around you, and if not, you have me and pretty much this entire community to talk to again.

Stay safe Nashe, you'll pull through this, I know it.

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That's what happens when you don't smile and nod at every moronic thing your fellow member of the human species says, I should know I had to spend the holidays with a die-hard Trump supporter. 

I have to ask what was this argument about? Money? Politics? Interpersonal relationships? I don't want any details just the general subject matter.

Edited by Soulless Watcher

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Again, thank you everyone. I'm okay now, although I am still a bit paranoid. But I assume that will be gone within a week. During the "session" in school with her, principal, vice-principal, teacher and my father and step-mother, she lost the argument so far. So people look at her that it's her own fault, which it is. If she would want to go to court with this, she would lose, no questions asked!

Anyways, I am fine and you don't need to worry about me any more!

6 hours ago, Soulless Watcher said:

I have to ask what was this argument about? Money? Politics? Interpersonal relationships? I don't want any details just the general subject matter.

Nah. I just got into a fight with a girl. Though she started it and I just acted in self-defense.

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Yeesh, how did I miss this? Wow... that's terrible. Who the hell thinks an argument is a good reason to run someone over with a car. Glad you're okay, though, and that the situation seems to be progressing into something more civil.

Edited by Valmore

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6 hours ago, Nashetania said:

Again, thank you everyone. I'm okay now, although I am still a bit paranoid. But I assume that will be gone within a week. During the "session" in school with her, principal, vice-principal, teacher and my father and step-mother, she lost the argument so far. So people look at her that it's her own fault, which it is. If she would want to go to court with this, she would lose, no questions asked!

Anyways, I am fine and you don't need to worry about me any more!

Nah. I just got into a fight with a girl. Though she started it and I just acted in self-defense.

I'm surprised this went anywhere.  It's your word against 4 others.  If there weren't any witnesses, all they had to do was not talk and nothing could be done.

In any case, court requires evidence.  Do you have any?  People like this are dangerous.  If they're not locked away for a while, they might try to come after you again.  Unfortunately, minors tend to get away with violent offenses that don't result in serious harm, especially against their peers.  The school can only do so much, even if they're on your side.

A month or so in jail, imprisoned amongst strangers, would probably be enough for them to seriously regret assaulting someone--at least, if they're not already hardened criminals.

Edited by sanahtlig

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this kind of thing was pretty frequent in my middleschool (not the car thing tough ) , it often happenned that somebody get into a fight , even just verbal ,and then call his big brothers and the said brothers friend to beat the shit out of his opponent. form what i recall , school was enough to avoid serious fight and harm , but this kind of thing can happen anytime sadly.

i dont have any advices, since the best i was able to do when i had problems with violent persons was to lock myself up in the WC at the breaks to avoid their contact , but just dont give up , and talk about this to your friends/family /  school  psychologist ? the worst thing to do is to dont talk about it and act like that never happened . stay strong ,and good luck :)

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