I don't get you at all. You are making problems where there aren't any.
If you are playing eroge, and don't want to read h-scenes- then just skip them, hold CTRL or whatever. It's that simple.
If you would translate a VN someday - do a full translation with h-scenes, and let the people choose for themselves. It's that simple.
If you don't want to translate h-scenes, just choose a non-ero VN or a full ages version. It's that simple.
Why are you making a fuss about it on forums instead? You have too mych free time or what?