Goat Warlord

Hey All! I've recently gotten into VNs and I just love what I've read. I've exhausted all of the good seinen romance manga, so I figured looking for good romance visual novels would be the next best step. Things I'm looking for include: 1) A male lead who isn't spineless. 2) A realistic relationship where the boy and/or girl fall don't in love instantly. More drama is always a plus. 3) Everyone isn't a virgin...this seems to be a reoccurring theme in a lot of the romance VNs I looked at. I don't care too much about this one as long as the story is good. 4) Preferably non high school characters, but I'm willing to be flexible on this if the characters are mature.